Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 5

Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 5

This is the final episode in the series on interacting with someone who has harmed you. Today we look at what it means to establish clear boundaries and put relational consequences in place when necessary. I also talk about what is involved in forgiveness and...
The Story Your Body Is Telling

The Story Your Body Is Telling

Your body tells a story. The sensations in your body reveal something about what you have experienced, what you hold, and what you carry. Most of us are either unaware of the sensations in our bodies, or we ignore them, or we war against them. An alternative is to pay...
Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 4

Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 4

Today’s focus is how to engage with, love, and honor a wicked person. Direct confrontation is not going to work. You need to be cunning, shrewd, and strategically disruptive. Think “surprise attacks of disruptive kindness” rather than direct confrontation. Dan...
Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 3

Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 3

What does it mean to honor your father/mother when they have harmed you? What does it mean to love someone who has harmed you? Today’s episode looks at these two questions. Love always disrupts the status quo. In other words, when you engage with someone in a loving...