Today Robyn and I begin a two part series on forgiveness. As Christians we are called to forgive those who harm us. But what does that actually mean? Next week, I’ll tackle that question, but today Robyn and I want to talk about what forgiveness is not. In particular, we want to address the notion of “forgive and forget.” How do you hold together Christ’s call to live in truthfulness and honesty with the idea that forgiveness means “forgetting the offense and never talking about it again.”

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