I met my wife Caroline at the College of William and Mary. We have been married for 20 years and have a daughter named Hope, age 10, and a son named Eli, age 7. 

My approach to therapy has been shaped primarily by Dan Allender, John Eldredge, Daniel Siegel, Allan Schore, Pat Ogden, and Bessel van der Kolk. You can find their works on the Books page.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in the states of Colorado and Georgia. I hold Master degrees in Social Work (Virginia Commonwealth University) and Divinity (Emory University). I have completed extensive training with Dan Allender, including the Advanced Counseling Certificate. I have also completed a two-week Survivors of Abuse Leadership Training Seminar. I am certified in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). 

I enjoy mountain biking, windsurfing, soccer, and painting.


It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the person who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood.
           — Theodore Roosevelt